In the big cup bra community, it is often commented how a D cup, or even a G cup is “not that big”, “not huge”. While I understand the goal of getting women to try a correct bra size, I sometimes feel like the subtext is that “big” or “huge” is a bad thing. The truth is that wether you set the line at a 32D, 28G or a 34J, some breasts are big, or at least bigger than others (Now I have that damn Smith song stuck in my head!) and it’s okay.
Nobody wants to be called a freak, no matter how far they are from a supposed average. I believe that there is not such a thing as too big, just like there is no such thing as too small. Frankly, I’m quite tired of the normative pressure put on women. Being larger or smaller than average is not a disease as some pseudo-science articles would have you believe.
In this spirit, I wanted to share a few brave posts that go against the grain
Yes it’s okay to Not wear a bra by the Lingerie Addict,